One of the most difficult decisions many Muslim
sisters face is the decision to start wearing hijab. This is certainly true for
reverts, but may also be true for sisters whose families or even whose cultures
are not particularly observant. As a revert myself, I have been through the
whole thing. I would like to offer some advice that I hope inshallah will be
helpful to sisters who are considering wearing hijab but find that something is
holding them back. If you don't think that you need to wear hijab, try "Why Should I Wear Hijab?" instead.
Learning
About Hijab
The first step is to learn about hijab. There is
so much information out there and unfortunately much of it seems to be
conflicting. Although most of what you see agrees that the sister must cover
everything but her face and hands, some groups say that it is fard to cover
everything but the eyes. Meanwhile, certain other groups are dedicated to
claiming that covering the hair is not obligatory. It is very easy to get
confused. And there are other questions. What is a jilbab? Is it fard to wear
one?
The word
hijab is derived from the Arabic root “hajaba”, which means to hide from view
or to conceal. Many people use it to refer to the headscarf which Muslim women
wear , but hijab is much more than a headscarf: it is an entire way of
dressing, behaving and believing. It is acceptable to name the scarf hijab so
long as it does not lead to the wrong impression that a headscarf is the only
requirement of true hijab. After all, anyone can wear a headscarf (gypsies,
fashion models, etc.), but it takes much more than that to fulfill the
conditions of Islamic dress.
1.
Proper
hijab (concealment for the Muslim woman) dictates that the entire body must be
covered, although the face and hands may be exposed. Some women choose to cover
themselves further by means of a face veil and gloves, and this is perfectly
fine.
2.
The
clothing must be long and loose-fitting so that the shape of the woman is not
outlined in her garments. Pants are unacceptable unless they are worn
underneath the outer garments.
3.
Garments
should not be transparent as to reveal the color of a woman's skin or to expose
the hair or body in any way. With regards to the headscarf, it must cover all
of the hair and be long enough to cover the woman's ears, neck and chest. Women
should take care to ensure that the scarf is securely fastened, usually with
pins, and that her hair is arranged so that it will not slip out of her scarf.
4.
Colors
and styles should be as plain as possible so that unnecessary attention is not
drawn to the woman. In addition, the clothing should not be excessively rich
and fancy in order to gain admiration nor excessively poor and ragged in order
to gain sympathy. Modesty is the main goal.
5.
Jewelry
must not be displayed, and it is especially important that it does not make
noise as a woman walks (an ankle-bracelet with bells, for example). Women in
pre-Islamic Arabia used to wear such bracelets and stamp their feet in the
markets in order to entice and attract men.
6.
The
dress should not resemble the garments of men, nor should it imitate the dress
of non-Muslims.
7.
Make-up
(unless it is completely covered by a face-veil) and perfume are strictly
prohibited for Muslim women when outdoors or in the presence of non-mahrem men.
A Muslim woman who
wears hijab should also strive to make her actions consistent with her dress
with regards to Islamic guidelines for speech, manners and behavior.
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