Five Beauty Routines woman who hated men

Men may not know that looking good is not easy. There are many treatments and routines that must be passed by a woman. So please understand if they secretly consider the following five points are not only strange, but also unnecessary.

Hair Tongs Eye

Many men are afraid to look at women who are her eyelashes curl. Maybe they think it hurts?. Some men also assume not much difference between the lashes that have been clipped and who have not. There would be no one who will see the woman from her lashes, but when viewed as a whole makeup, eyelashes curled (especially given the mascara) will make the eyes look more "open".

Hairspray

Men like women's hair stroked, so while being caressed his hair was hard as a rock, they would immediately disappointed. "It seems odd that when the head of the active women were moving but her hair did not say anything,"

Repeal Eyebrows

What is meant here is not to shave off his eyebrows and made it back with a pencil or eyebrow tattoos, but the process is usually performed her routine every month to prevent messy eyebrows. According to him, plucking eyebrows, either by themselves or in the salon, is a form of torture. They do not understand why a woman to want to pay for the "torture".

Face Masks

"What the hell, wear a face mask? Once completed there was no difference," so to speak is in the mind of man. But they hate the most is to see women using face masks. Just imagine being tired when husband just got home from work, hoping to welcome a beautiful wife, but that he got was a creature with a face covered in cream.  We all know the mask beneficial for skin health, but it's good to use when you're alone, or with female friends.

Lip Gloss

Men do not mind the lipstick. The matter that they are lip gloss that makes lips wet memorable. It makes him so in no mood to kiss your lips because it felt sticky. Then how about the strawberry-flavored lip gloss, orange flavor, and so on? "Same thing," said Aaron. "Lip gloss flavor whatever, it all seemed like a lip gloss in our mouths."


What about you, the women? Agree with the opinion of a man about five of the above? Or is there male readers who think differently?

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Islam in The World of Teens

          Islam in the eyes of teenagers now may be just a religion that requires them to prayer, fasting, zakat and hajj. But in fact, Islam is not only limited to it. Islam also teaches kehipuan procedures for associating with men, setting out how Muslim women in dress, regulates our behavior towards the elderly and so on. But, in fact it is far from realization. Among teens today are not considered Islam as his soul, his mind or his heart itself is aware of what will be accounted for in the hereafter.

         In this case aqidah a key role in the establishment of an Islamic youth. Aqeedah itself consists of three elements, namely faith, Islam, and Ihsan. Then do the problems we are facing is when teens bahwasnya Islam that will regenerate the previously supplied, embedded, and are taught from childhood about what it means faith, Islam, and Ihsan with a supportive and conducive environment for generations to bear , then Insha Allah the Muslim youth today do not just think of Islam as a religion of "curb" their way of life and death, but those who will be justified later.

         As in the hadith the Prophet said: "The Mu'min's most perfect faith are those who best mind and character" (Narrated by Ahmad). In this case suggests that morality is a Benchmark of one's faith. Adolescents who believe that a certain character is good. Well, now is the time period of moral crisis. In terms of hard to find teenagers who have a certain good. Most teenagers today will not oriented to the Prophet Muhammad, but to their idols as well-known bands, soap opera actress, and so forth. It shows that their faith in the Prophet Muhammad began to fade. Though the Prophet more have a larger share in the life of Islam than is their idol.

        This is the problem now faced by young Muslims today. Islam considers them trivial, limited to religion. The solution is how we as Muslims who are both studying to get to the blessing of God, encouraging them to always remember at the All-Creating them, alerting them to how the adab to the opposite sex, parents and others. Insha Allah in sincerity to continue preaching and Jihad Fi Sabilillah, we can together to ridhoNya.

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Why Should I Wear Hijab?

One of the most difficult decisions many Muslim sisters face is the decision to start wearing hijab. This is certainly true for reverts, but may also be true for sisters whose families or even whose cultures are not particularly observant. As a revert myself, I have been through the whole thing. I would like to offer some advice that I hope inshallah will be helpful to sisters who are considering wearing hijab but find that something is holding them back. If you don't think that you need to wear hijab, try  "Why Should I Wear Hijab?" instead.

Learning About Hijab

The first step is to learn about hijab. There is so much information out there and unfortunately much of it seems to be conflicting. Although most of what you see agrees that the sister must cover everything but her face and hands, some groups say that it is fard to cover everything but the eyes. Meanwhile, certain other groups are dedicated to claiming that covering the hair is not obligatory. It is very easy to get confused. And there are other questions. What is a jilbab? Is it fard to wear one? 

The word hijab is derived from the Arabic root “hajaba”, which means to hide from view or to conceal. Many people use it to refer to the headscarf which Muslim women wear , but hijab is much more than a headscarf: it is an entire way of dressing, behaving and believing. It is acceptable to name the scarf hijab so long as it does not lead to the wrong impression that a headscarf is the only requirement of true hijab. After all, anyone can wear a headscarf (gypsies, fashion models, etc.), but it takes much more than that to fulfill the conditions of Islamic dress. 

1.      Proper hijab (concealment for the Muslim woman) dictates that the entire body must be covered, although the face and hands may be exposed. Some women choose to cover themselves further by means of a face veil and gloves, and this is perfectly fine.

2.      The clothing must be long and loose-fitting so that the shape of the woman is not outlined in her garments. Pants are unacceptable unless they are worn underneath the outer garments.

3.      Garments should not be transparent as to reveal the color of a woman's skin or to expose the hair or body in any way. With regards to the headscarf, it must cover all of the hair and be long enough to cover the woman's ears, neck and chest. Women should take care to ensure that the scarf is securely fastened, usually with pins, and that her hair is arranged so that it will not slip out of her scarf.

4.      Colors and styles should be as plain as possible so that unnecessary attention is not drawn to the woman. In addition, the clothing should not be excessively rich and fancy in order to gain admiration nor excessively poor and ragged in order to gain sympathy. Modesty is the main goal.

5.      Jewelry must not be displayed, and it is especially important that it does not make noise as a woman walks (an ankle-bracelet with bells, for example). Women in pre-Islamic Arabia used to wear such bracelets and stamp their feet in the markets in order to entice and attract men.

6.      The dress should not resemble the garments of men, nor should it imitate the dress of non-Muslims.

7.     Make-up (unless it is completely covered by a face-veil) and perfume are strictly prohibited for Muslim women when outdoors or in the presence of non-mahrem men.

A Muslim woman who wears hijab should also strive to make her actions consistent with her dress with regards to Islamic guidelines for speech, manners and behavior.

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Women with Mahar's Most Expensive and Largest, Who is She?

          She is Ummu Sulaim radhiyallohu 'anha.  Ummu Sulaim marry Abu Talha Abu Talha on condition of Islam. This requirement is evidence of superior intellect and strong belief in Umm Sulaim against his Lord. Ummu Sulaim not require wealth, status and more. Even the sight of the first and the precedence is the faith of her husband. Though Abu Talha had been persuaded by the treasure, gold and silver in order to accept to become her husband. But he refused to except Islam.

          Looking for a  reality in which most women today about their point of view about marriage, it would seem obvious differences and distances between women and the generation of Ummu Sulaim.

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