Women with Mahar's Most Expensive and Largest, Who is She?

          She is Ummu Sulaim radhiyallohu 'anha.  Ummu Sulaim marry Abu Talha Abu Talha on condition of Islam. This requirement is evidence of superior intellect and strong belief in Umm Sulaim against his Lord. Ummu Sulaim not require wealth, status and more. Even the sight of the first and the precedence is the faith of her husband. Though Abu Talha had been persuaded by the treasure, gold and silver in order to accept to become her husband. But he refused to except Islam.

          Looking for a  reality in which most women today about their point of view about marriage, it would seem obvious differences and distances between women and the generation of Ummu Sulaim.

         Thoughts and ambitions of women in this era of marriage is purely material. He will look at properties owned by the applicant, demands to be met maid, driver, and others. But he neglected to look on the religion of the applicant and the faith  to Allah. No doubt this is evidence of lack of fiqh TSB group of women.

         Yet what is the need for wealth and position for his wife if he does not fear Allah and devoted to him, even waste the command of Allah and dare to violate their limits? Husband worthy of such a situation is not trusted by his wife who resides in the protection and power.

         It is true Rosulullah sholallohu 'alaihi wasallam said, "When it comes to you who you pleasure in terms of religious and moral then marry him. If you do not do it, there will be slander and great corruption. "

         And it is worth Umm Sulaim radhiyallohu 'anha as the owner of the largest and most expensive dowries implicitly.

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